Road Less Stupid

 All development is self-development. You cannot develop another person. You cannot motivate another person. You can create an environment in which they motivate themselves and you facilitate their development.

What shortcuts am I trying to take that are not really shortcuts, but rather mirages of greed, laziness, or impatience ?

What skills do I need to master to attain the success I want?

Realistically, how much additional time/years and practice are required for me to obtain my outcomes ?

Who can I hire as a coach or mentor to help guide me and hold me accountable ?

Where do I need to practice to improve my game , and thus, deserve the success I want ?

Where do I need to pick up my level of intensity in how I am playing my game?