People Have A Language Of Their Physical Movement - Interacting Requires Your Mirror Their Dance

 

𝗣𝗼𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲
Was your posture open or closed- so that your heart was exposed?
⬗ 𝘈𝘳𝘮𝘴 𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘥, 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘯 𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘬, 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘴𝘭𝘶𝘮𝘱𝘦𝘥, 𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘴 𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘥, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘥-𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘵, 𝘯𝘰𝘥𝘴

𝗣𝗵𝘆𝘀𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗧𝗼𝘂𝗰𝗵
Did you use touch to connect with the other person? What did you do--and how did that feel?
⬗ 𝘛𝘰𝘶𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘹𝘺𝘵𝘰𝘤𝘪𝘯

𝗠𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴
What gestures and facial expressions did you use? How did these reflect whatever you were feeling?
⬗ 𝘉𝘭𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘣𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘧𝘭𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘧 𝘯𝘰𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘪𝘭𝘴, 𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘱, 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩

𝗘𝘆𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗰𝘁
Think about your eye contact with this person. How would you describe it? Can you recall the color of their eyes?
⬗ 𝘌𝘺𝘦𝘴 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝙪𝙥 & 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘧𝘵: 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮 𝙤𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙧𝙚𝙙

⬗ 𝘌𝘺𝘦𝘴 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝙪𝙥 & 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘙𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵: 𝙞𝙢𝙖𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚

𝗧𝗼𝗻𝗲
And what about your paralanguage? Was your dialocue fairly synchronistic in terms of tone, volume, and speed?

⬗ 𝘛𝘰𝘯𝘦, 𝘷𝘰𝘭𝘶𝘮𝘦, 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘦𝘥, 𝘳𝘩𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘮, 𝘱𝘪𝘵𝘤𝘩, 𝘭𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘱𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘵𝘢𝘭𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦, 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘳𝘶𝘱𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨

"Thaw with her gentle persuasion is more powerful than Thor with his hammer. The one melts, the other breaks into pieces." - Henry David Thoreau